Ok seriously was going to post this on that damn facebook but I think here would be more appropriated given the subject matter.
Time and time again I see both boy and girls bitch wine and complain that they are single and lonely thus explains their sadness in life; they would be so much more happy if they had “love” in their lives….. Are you fucking stupid?
Riddle me this, how in the blue hell do you expect to keep said person if you do happen to be so lucky to get them? Being a drama queen? Look if that happens they will walk out on your ass (especially at this age) and think that damn “this person doesnt have their shit together” They WILL walk out on you.
On top of that how do you expect to make someone else happy if you cant be happy with yourself??? What people in this generation fail to see is that happiness doesnt come from others for yourself but your own personal happiness comes from within. If you cant be happy with yourself then you have NO right to be walking around saying “oh no one loves me” Let me explain.
Lets start with you, yea you reading this. If youre not happy with what you have in life then do some changing! If you feel like your job is shit or youre not happy in school then change it! Change something in your own personal life to get you on the road to being happy and actually being a good person! Life is way to damn short to be doing something that makes you unhappy. After that, get your shit together!!! No one wants to be with a loser or some sad/emo person that all they do all day long is bitch and complain about everything. Stop using facebook, twitter, this site or any other as your personal vent outlet; sure its ok to do it once in a while if something really upsets you, we all have those days but all day every single day??? Those people piss me off to no end. For example “oh Im so over it all, no one really cares” # weeks later “oh why do I even bother with him/her/them they are all the same, Im so over it all” -_- really??? Shut the fuck up you hang out with like 20 people at any given time of the day whom 10 of them are guys/girls and they all follow you around like puppy dogs. You know who those people are and if you are one of them…. shame on you for being an IDIOT and getting off your ass and change! No one person is going to be the same nor is their living situation or how they get their life together, everything falls into place at its own time and at its own speed. Some may have it done faster than others but others will take some time. Be understanding
Secondly, and this ties into the theme of this rant is to stop thinking your happiness is tied to being with someone else. I have been officially single for just about two years come October. At one point I thought I had it all, the perfect girl (not so perfect in hind sight) perfect career path, perfect life but I wasnt happy with myself and thus it fell apart faster than a Chinese OE replacement part for a car. In my eyes if you cant be happy with yourself, your life, and enjoy being by yourself, you have no business trying to find love because you yourself are not a complete person ready to give yourself to what could be your better half. Learn to be happy with the person you see staring back at you in the mirror because that is the only face you are going to have unless you get plastic surgery…. then you wont be you anymore. Learn to love yourself FIRST; if you cant do that then nothing will work.
Without typing much more due to me getting angry over these younger people doing this (bare in mind if you have to think that this might apply to you, then it does) Im not calling everyone out because not everyone does this. Make yourself a great person, ready to give to that special someone first, until then you wont be happy and you will probably end up destroying more then you will building anything.